Sunday, November 22, 2009

Saturday, November 21, 2009

What I've Learned

I've learned a lot these past few years
Through my fake smiles and unseen tears
That friends sometimes aren't forever
that true love doesn't always last
And happy memories stay with you
but those happy moments go by fast

Words can cut deeper than any sword
Leaving you with something
That no man could replace or ever afford
Sometimes things happen,
Sometimes your heart will break
Though to feel real happiness this is what's at stake
In order to have the comfort of heaven
and your story to live to tell
You must also experience the hate-filled life of hell

Remember . . . There will always be someone there
Someone that honestly does care
A person can leave your life
Leave you alone with your worries and strife
But like pain, the love you once felt cannot from your body depart
but only may enter your heart

Don't worry someday it will all get better
Your mornings will grow joyful with someone to love
And you'll have the kind of life you thought you could only dream of

I've been there before with my head in my hands
Believing there's no way anyone could ever understand
But they do . . . trying everything they can to help you
Still you sit there unknowing and blind
To what soon you'll be glad to find.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

33 Facts about Guyz

1. Guys don't actually  look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat

and presentable girls.



2. Guys  hate flirts.



3.When a  guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not

thinking  the way he is. ... very true

4. Guys may  be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep,

they always think  about the girl they truly care about


.



5. When a  guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad

characteristics.



6. Guys go  crazy over a girl's smile.



7. Guys  will do anything just to get the girl's attention.



8. When you  touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.



9. When a  girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow".

..... so true.



10. You  have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the

message  clearly.

11. Guys love their moms.



12. A guy  would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple

of roses.



13. A guy  often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't

mean that the  guy likes her.



14. You can  never understand him unless you listen to him.



15. If a  guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.



16. Beware.  Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of

the earth faster  than girls can.



17. Like  Eve, girls are guys' weaknesses.



18. Guys  are very open about themselves.



19. It's  good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let

him wait  that long.



20. Guys  hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.



21. Guys  really admire girls that they like even if they're not that

much pretty.



22. If a  guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to

listen to him.  You don't need to give advice ... very true.



23. A usual  act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases

you.



24. Guys  cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.



25. Guys  think too much.

26. Guys  fantasies are unlimited.



27. Girls'  height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight

does! ... very true.



28. Guys  tend to get serious with their relationship and become too

possessive. So  watch out girls!!!  ...disputed



29. Guys  are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is

about  girls.



30. You can  truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him

praying sometimes.



31. If a  guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.



32. Guys  hate girls who overreact. ... very very true



33. Guys  love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your

relationships.

Eight Lies of A "Mother"

This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we hadn't
enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion
of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would say
"Eat this rice, son! I'm not hungry."

*This was Mother's First Lie. *



As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house;
she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit more
nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would
make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside me and
eat the what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten, My heart
was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick
but she immediately refused it and said, "Eat this fish, son! I don't really
like fish."

*This was Mother's Second Lie. *



Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory to bring
home some used matchboxes, which she filled with fresh matchsticks. This
helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I awoke to
find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I said, "Mother, go to
sleep; it's late: you can continue working tomorrow morning." Mother smiled
and said "Go to sleep, son! I'm not tired."

*This was Mother's Third Lie. *



When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After dawn,
Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang, I
ran to meet her.. Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she
had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my Mother's love,
Seeing Mother covered with perspiration, I at once gave her my glass and
asked her to drink too. Mother said "Drink, son! I'm not thirsty!".

*This was Mother's Fourth Lie. *



After Father's death, Mother had to play the role of a single parent. She
held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family's
life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family's
condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us
solve our problems big and small. Our other neighbors saw that we were
poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother
refused to remarry saying "I don't need love."

*This was Mother's Fifth Lie. *



After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my old
Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning just
to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was steadfast and
even sent the money back to me. She said, "I have enough money."


*That was Mother's Sixth Lie. *



I continued my part-time studies for my Master's Degree. Funded by the
American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies. With a
big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in America
but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she said to me "I'm not used to
high living."

*That was Mother's Seventh Lie. *



In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now
living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was bedridden
after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she
was so thin and feeble but Mother said, "Don't cry, son! I'm not in pain."

*That was Mother's Eighth Lie. *


*Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died. YES, MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!
M - O - T - H - E - R *



"M" is for the Million things she gave me,

"O" means Only that she's growing old,

"T" is for the Tears she shed to save me,

"H" is for her Heart of gold,

"E" is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them,

"R" means Right, and right she'll always be.



Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER" a word that means the world to
me.


For those of you who are lucky to be still blessed with your Mom's presence
on Earth, this story is beautiful. For those who aren't so blessed, this is
even more beautiful.

Monday, November 9, 2009

Love Someone . . .

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...
then it's not love..
it's - Infatuation . . .

If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because
others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love..
it's - compromise . . .

If you love some one because you think that you cannot live with out his
touch ....
then it's not love ..
it's - lust . . .

If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ...
then it's not love..
it's - inferiority complex . . .

If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would
hurt his feelings ..
then it's not love ..
it's - charity . . .

If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...
then it's not love..
it's - friendship . . .

but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is
stable
and you cry for him ..
that's - LOVE . . .

Friday, November 6, 2009

by "Dr.Abdul kalam"

Like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England . When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government. Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country. Nobody thinks of feeding the system.